From the Disrespectful Student Incident with War Veterans: A Lesson for Everyone, Including Adults!

A recent incident involving a university student showing disrespect toward

during a on April 30 has sparked public debate about manners, emotional intelligence, and the role of education in shaping social behavior. According to Dr. Nguyen Quoc Anh, even a brief moment of uncontrolled anger can damage one’s reputation and cause broader societal harm—especially in an era where everything can be captured and shared instantly.

This incident highlights a deeper issue: the lack of guidance in teaching young people how to manage emotions, show patience, and

. Educators and experts believe that the responsibility lies not only with schools, but also with families and society. Instead of imposing , schools are encouraged to adopt more constructive approaches, such as engaging students in community service. These real-life experiences—caring for war veterans or visiting —can cultivate empathy, self-awareness, and civic responsibility.

Nguyen Hai Truong An emphasized the importance of seeing this moment not just as a student’s mistake, but as a collective opportunity for growth. Families should model respectful behavior early on, and schools must prioritize emotional development alongside academic training. Meanwhile, the public and media should avoid generalizing or

an entire group based on one individual’s actions. If every party reflects with fairness and openness, this event could lead to more and responsible citizenship.